How does one succeed in life?

What I need from you?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Is marijuana bad for you?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Im happy but there is a heavy feeling of sadness in my heart that I just can't remove. Why am I like this?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Ask yourself:

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Does the Hamas charter specifically call for the death of all Jews and the destruction of Israel?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Why don't men find fat women attractive?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

What is a good tool for product analytics besides Google Analytics?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

My dog is 2 weeks old. He's not eating, moving and always sleeping and I can't take him to a vet. What should I do?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

What is your opinion on The Beatles' impact on modern popular music? Are there any other bands with similar impacts on their genre(s)? Why them and not others?

That's it for today.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Is it accurate to say that while Donald Trump has "America First" policy, the Democratic Party has "Other nations first" policy?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Why are so many Communist Chinese on Quora despite it being illegal for Chinese citizens to use Quora?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

How can I get rid of the fake girls on social media that are claiming to be hookups? Is there a way to shuffle through them and the real women that actually want to talk?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Is Melania still angry that she failed as a model? Why is she so cold and hostile? Why did she blame everyone for her actions in her trite book?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Does not procrastinate.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Making more friends is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.